Greatest enemies of Success

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Fear, self-pity, envy, jealousy feelings of inferiority and anger are mostly caused by four factors that trap us in the past, living nightmares without possibility to set ourselves free. once we identify and remove these factors from our thinking our negative emotions stop automatically.

When negative emotions stop the positive emotions of love, peace, joy, forgiveness, hope and enthusiasm flow in to replace them and our whole life changes for the better sometimes in a matter of minutes or even seconds with a shiny life or smile.

• Justification: we can only be negative and promote negativity as long as we can justify to ourselves and others that we are right to be angry or upset for some reason this is why angry people are continually explained and elaborate on the reasons for their negative feelings.

• Rationalization: We attempt to give a socially acceptable explanation for an otherwise socially unacceptable act we rationalize to explain away or to put a favorable light on something that we have done that we feel bad or unhappy about. It is required that we make someone or something else the source or cause of our problem by casting ourselves in the role of the victim and we make the other person or organization into the oppressor or the bad guy.

• Over concern: Hypersensitivity to the way that others treat us. Our entire self-image is determined by the way others speak to us talk to us or about us or even look at us. We build our personal value by setting our self-worth apart from the opinions of others and if those opinions are negative for any reason real or imagined we become the victim, depression, self-pity and despair.

Psychologists say that almost everything we do in life is to earn the respect of others or at least to avoid losing their respect towards us.

• Blaming: The worst of all causes and it is the trunk of the tree as the propensity to blame other people for our problems or our mistakes.

Once you cut down the trunk of the tree all the fruits of the tree all the other negative emotions die immediately and your shine toward taking full responsibility of your live. From now-on, refuse to blame anyone else for anything past or present or future. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent and it is by You or from You.